LiberātHER Muse & Creatrix

LaurenSoL

This is not another empowerment brand

This is a Liberātion Frequency

i don’t "teach" a woman to "be confident"

i remindHER she is free.

LiberātHER Muse & Creatrix

LaurenSoL

This is not another empowerment brand

This is a Liberātion Frequency

i don’t "teach" a woman to "be confident"

i remindHER she is free.

Our Calling

Our Calling

i am not here as a leader—i am here as a remindHER.

This isn’t a method or masterclass.

It’s remembHERing—without guru masters or scripted influencers.

TheCalling is not to position myself as a coach, an expert, or an influence.

In fact, TheCalling is not to position myself at all.

Over the past twenty years, i’ve worked in many different spaces—leading oral surgical teams, serving as Executive Director of a 25-year-old international nonprofit, & sitting as treasurer on the board of another nonprofit. Along the way, i’ve seen how social, emotional, interpersonal, & economic realities shape us across cultures, genders, & generations.

What all of this taught me wasn’t how to lead from above, but how to walk alongside. Real progress & flourishing happen when we release hierarchy & join in genuine collaboration—human to human.

So no pedestals here. My devotion is to living the work from the inside—to being a Liberāting Muse through my own honest walk, the dances & the stumbles, & a willingness to play in the fire right alongside you.

Hard-won truth has taught me this:

freedom lives in meeting life with humor, humility, curiosity, play & grace—laughing where we can, learning where we must, & letting every experience, whether painful or joyful, reveal truth.

i do not assert my answers as your answers.

i offer only my sincere presence as an inquiry to RemembHER own.

If you’ve found me, it’s not because you need more motivation, or advice.

You’re not here due to a lack of discipline—or therapy bills. On the contrary. We’re here because discipline, drive, & therapy still haven’t closed the gap between realizing the truth & actually transmuting it.

Something's still holding you back. Fear & self-doubt have quietly shaped how visible you let yourself be—how boldly you create, how freely you speak, how much liberty you grant yourself to receive what you want.

TheCalling exists for one reason.

To utilize my personally lived experience—viscerally, experimentally, & honestly—to understand how fear is formed, how identity becomes a cage, & that ultimately Liberātion is not an achievement; it is an embodied expression & lived experience.

Not in theory…

Not through gurus or borrowed authority…

But in real life.

Through genuine experience.

The kind you can’t fake, buy, or outsource from an institution.

I live for this.

And my calling is for it to echo through you—so you live for this too.

i have been thrown into the fire time & time again—and each time, i emerge with greater clarity, self-trust, humor & freedom. Through these fires, i’ve learned something essential: every one of them carries the opportunity to burn down faulty structures of identity & lay bare the true foundation of our being.

i’m welcoming you to join me in playing with fire—through choice, humor, curiosity, & grace, rather than resistance.

Not to follow me.

Not to emulate a lifestyle, identity, or position.

But to step out of guru culture entirely & return authority to where it belongs—within you.

Welcoming you to play a new tune through the instruments of fear & self-doubt. To get comfortable being in the fire—so fear becomes fuel, conditioning turns into a launch pad, & the truth of who you are can soar free.

Not by judgment.

Not by permission.

But by RemembHERing what is already yours.

Freedom is never externally granted.

Freedom is always internally decided.

Your Sovereign SoL awaits your return.

This is HERCalling.

RemembHER & LiberātHER!

The Fire

i was born into a house built on sheer survival; its foundation warped before i even had a chance to stand.

Both of my parents were refugees, fleeing oppressive regimes, carrying unhealed trauma they neither had the tools nor the awareness to face. What they survived, they still couldn't outrun. It spilled into our home. Violence, volatility, & fear were the soundtrack of my childhood.

At the same time, i entered the world visibly different. i was born with alopecia—a bald little girl growing up in the 80s & 90s, long before difference was socially or culturally tolerated. Every time i stepped outside, i was confronted. Stares. Pointing. Questions. Jokes made directly at my expense by adults who thought they were being clever. “What’s wrong with you?” “Are you a boy or a girl?” “Why are you bald?”

i was left, very young, to figure out how to exist in a world that seemed determined to scrutinize me—while also navigating a treacherous home. Given the choice between violence & judgment, i chose the latter. The outside world was harsh, yet still less cruel.

For years, i had no other strategy, but to white-knuckle life. Grinning & bearing while my nervous system was redlining in overdrive. i wished nothing more than to just disappear, to blend in, to not be seen at all.

It was in my darkest, most desolate moments—when there was no one to turn to, nothing to distract from the pain, & no escape from the weight of it all—that the profound illumination of truth found me.

An Exploration

When every plausible way forward seemed blocked, the truth lit the only path:

Freedom is not determined by external conditions or support systems.

Freedom comes through making peace with oneself, in any circumstance.

It would be years before i could truly "make peace" with myself—but dang, did i make do. My mischievous curiosity & tongue-in-cheek humor—stoked by having nothing to lose & everything to gain—became my compass. i learnt pretty quickly, when life gives you fire. Start slangin Molotov cocktails.

i began playing with invisibility—not by shrinking, but by dropping the need to control what others saw, or thought of me. It didn’t matter. It never does. And honestly it was exhausting! When strangers mocked me, i met them with bold truth, concise humor, & direct eye contact: “i was born bald & beautiful.” Then i’d cut straight to the core: And how about you? Do you know who you are? Are you being honest with yourself—or just pretending?

And this is where our conversation really began.

After each detonation of my surprise truth bomb, disarmament & spontaneous honesty would unfold between two complete strangers of all ages & walks of life. i began to recognize through these unexpected & profound exchanges that everyone was managing their own fires—some self-set, some tossed at others, some burning blindly, fueled by ignorance & destructive norms. i learnt to surf the flames of anger & rebellion, using them as brief propellants into purposeful exploration. My own judgment of others gave way to my own self-inquiry, altruistic empathy, & unified recognition.

What i realized was revelatory...

My Awakening

Most people are knocked off their feet when the spotlight hits a truth they've been hiding at all cost even to themselves.

That realization changed everything.

Instead of seeing life as something to survive, i became curious. i started observing like an intrigued anthropologist—watching fear, self-doubt, & how they shape the way people think, speak, perform, & attempt to protect themselves.

Over time, i gathered a quiet but expansive education in human nature—through family, strangers, relationships, & my own lived experiments.


What became clear to me, again & again, is this: Suffering is almost always self-inflicted—and it is invariably rooted in fear and self-doubt.

RemembHERing

The labels placed on me, bald girl, abused child, freak—only had power when i believed them. Once i stopped subscribing i started laughing at the absurdity. True freedom arrived when i practiced what i now call The Art of Invisibility by: releasing identity, surrendering external definitions, & meeting each moment without needing approval, protection, or performance.

Aka The Sovereign SoL Sequence

1. Fuck it!

2. So what?

3. Who cares?!

When we stop caring about who we

think we should be—or who others

think we should be—we start living

in presence.

And presence is where courage, creativity, humor, and authentic connection thrive.

Presence is when we

RemembHER & LiberātHER.

My Calling is to BeHER RemindHER

I live to BeHER in order to remindHER.

The level of freedom we experience is self- determined.

It's time we ask ourselves earnestly:

Am i determined to argue against why i can't choose for myself to simply be free?

Am i determined to convince others of the reasons why freedom isn't such a concise expression-experience?

Am i determined to turn challenges & pain into suffering & victimhood?

Let's ask ourselves sincerely:

Why do i find myself so determined to argue against simplicity & for overcomplicating things?

Why do i find myself determined to convince others it is beyond my capability & power?

Why do i find myself determined to translate challenges & pain into enemies & villains?

Why not ask ourselves What If?

What if i start being determined to simplify instead of overcomplicate things?

What if i start being determined to convince myself of my own power & my own capability?

What if i start being determined to utilize tension & pain my own unstoppable force to thrust onward & upward like an powerful propulsion engine?

My Calling is to BeHER RemindHER to laugh it off!

"The weight of the world" is not a tangible thing we hold, but a projection of self-determined mental servitude.

"The world as your oyster" is not a tangible thing we hold, but a projection of self-determined freedom.

Pick your preference.

It's our time to lay to rest the cycle of

trauma-bonding &

celebrate Triumph-Tuning!

Through honest inquiry, humor, playful experimentation, & an adventurous spirit, we chart the course to RemembHERing & LiberātHER.

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